Practicing Healthy Self-Talk

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“I would love to host an event but I’m sure nobody will show up.”  

“I would get my hair cut like that if my face was shaped like hers.”

“I can’t wear pants like that, not with thighs this big.”

“I was going to raise my hand but nobody wanted to hear what I had to say.”

“It doesn’t matter what I do, the weight just won’t come off.”

“I’ve been wanting to write a book but I’ll never be able to earn a living as an author.”

“I hate my job. I can’t stand my co-workers. I don’t have time.”

And on, and on, and on…  

Do any of these sound familiar? This is the sound of negative self-chatter. It lives in our heads, it slips from our lips in everyday conversation, it drives our actions and, believe me, it’s taking its toll. Regular self-bashing can become such a common practice that it’s difficult to recognize, particularly when we wrap it nicely in a self- deprecating joke and tell ourselves, “I’m just being real.”  Negativity is destructive and it can derail your best efforts at cultivating a healthy lifestyle. We have to start a new conversation with ourselves.

The average adult has nearly 70,000 thoughts per day - some that just pass through, others that stick around. Take a moment and think about the thoughts that run through your mind. Are they positive and uplifting (“I’m going to do my best.”) or are they doom and gloom (“This is never going to work?”)  

Positive thinking may seem like just a buzz word but it’s actually grounded in real neuroscience. Not only can positive thinking boost your mood, but it can also foster resilience, and actually improve brain function. I believe mastering your mindset is the first step to creating a sustainable, healthier lifestyle.  It’s the glue that makes any new habit stick. Whatever your new habit or goal may be, whether it’s hosting an event, giving yourself a makeover, speaking up, losing weight, or writing a book, your success will be determined by your mindset.

Everyone has negative thoughts at times but we don’t have to play them on a continuous loop. A snide comment, a past mistake, or a failed relationship doesn’t determine our future. Our attitude and thinking are choices over which we have complete control. Negative thinking might be a natural human condition but positive thinking builds fortitude and helps us grow from negative experiences, daily stresses, and the really hard stuff. We don’t have to accept negativity. Here are some actions steps we can all take right now:

  • Interrupt negative self-talk

  • Replace limiting beliefs with self-supporting goals

  • Stop comparing yourself to others

  • Embrace change (if you want different results you have to do things differently)

  • Practice gratitude (by citing affirmations/praying to start your day) SEE BLACK + WELL WEEKLY AFFIRMATIONS ON IG!

  • Surround yourself with positive energy and positive people

  • Reflect on negative thoughts then let them go (meditation, journaling, or simply stillness)

  • Do something good for someone else


Don’t let negativity hold you back!


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Courtney Huell: Health Coach, Massage Therapist, and Creator of The Root Lady's Goodies. IG: @routewellness



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Black + Well Spring/Summer Lookbook

Last weekend we released our digital magazine and the response has been incredible! In light of Mental Health Awareness Month, we bring to you our sneak-peek lookbook with a special featured article 'My Mental Health Journey' by Elizabeth DeHaan and an exclusive interview with Jason Rosario of 'The Lives of Men' and more. In the complete magazine, you'll view pieces on vulnerability, self-care, regenerative farming, cannabis, holistic healing, delicious plant-based recipes, and our lifestyle spread, including a list of the top podcast in wellness. Grab your Spring/Summer copy here.

 
 

Timely Topics at U.S. Veg Corp's 9th Annual Veg Food Fest (You Don't Want To Miss)

MANHATTAN-- The multi-faceted Gabriel Cousens--an ivy-trained M.D., an ordained rabbi, a Native American sundancer, and author of 13 internationally acclaimed books--will be just one of the keynote speakers appearing at the 9th annual NYC Vegetarian Food Festival, this weekend May 18-19, at the Metropolitan Pavilion in Chelsea.

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Cousens is known worldwide as a spiritual teacher and an expert on plant-source nutrition. He's also a cutting-edge researcher on how to heal diabetes using all-natural methods. At the festival, he will discuss and demo Shaktipat Meditation on both afternoons, and will speak on "Holistic Veganism" on Sunday afternoon. 


Yet another top-drawer presenter will be Brooklyn Borough President Eric Adams. A long-time vegan, Adams has served the residents of New York as a police officer, state senator and coalition builder. In 1995, he co-founded 100 Blacks in Law Enforcement Who Care. He organized support against the NYPD’s controversial “stop and frisk” policy, and led efforts on behalf of gun control. He has also served on the board of the Eastern District Counseling Service, an organization assisting former substance abusers to live productive lives without dependency on drugs or alcohol. He'll appear on the festival's Apple Stage from 3:15 to 4 p.m. on Saturday.


Celebrity chefs will also be featured at the festival, as they take over the Pear Stage on both Saturday and Sunday. With 10 vegan cookbooks to her name, Terry Hope Romero was head of the food vertical at Kickstarter, and is the program manager for the Food-X food startup accelerator. Her appearance is slated for Saturday from 1:30 to 2 p.m.


Dustin Harder is the host and creator of a popular web series called The Vegan Roadie. When not filming, he works as a personal chef and recipe developer. He'll give a presentation on the "Vegan Fondue Party" on Saturday, 2:15-2:45. 


Chef Alexandra Shytsman will hold fort early on Sunday afternoon. She is a cookbook author, food photographer, and creator of The New Baguette (a blog about plant-based cooking for beginners). She is the former marketing manager of NYC's Natural Gourmet Institute, the country's first plant-based culinary school.


Meanwhile, in the Kumquat Kid's Area of the festival, children and their families will be able to dabble in arts and crafts, listen to stories, and create some music... all on a plant-based and eco-friendly theme. The area is sponsored by the Coalition for Healthy School Food, which is this year’s official festival non-profit beneficiary.


Families can also take advantage of a "Vegan Parenting" panel to be presented on Saturday from 5:20 to 5:50 p.m. The panel moderator will be Emily Wood, co-founder of Raise Vegan Magazine and panelists are:

  • Robyn Moore, the brains between RaisingVegKids.com. She has a master's degree in elementary education, a certificate in Plant-Based Nutrition from Cornell University, and a certificate in Humane Education from the Institute for Humane Education.

  • Jared Madden, an actuary and ultra marathon runner. He fuels his sub-3-hour marathon runs on a completely vegan diet.

  • Matisse Madden, a professional ballerina and ballet instructor at Yale University. She consults with others on the value of a vegan diet for dancers.

Other features of the festival include a Mind/Body Area where attendees can practice yoga and other wellness disciplines, as well as rows of booths showcasing plant-based food and lifestyle vendors and information tables highlighting some of the nations premiere non-profit organizations. A complete schedule of speakers, chefs, classes and activities as well as a list of exhibitors can be found at nycvegfoodfest.com.

The NYC Vegetarian Food Festival is presented by U.S. Veg Corp, which stages plant-based events across the country. For further information or to purchase tickets, visit nycvegfoodfest.com. VIP and general admission tickets are available online. Student, senior citizen and military discounted tickets are available with valid ID. Kids 10 and under are free but must be accompanied by an adult. A portion of ticket sales will be donated to the Coalition for Healthy School Food.

Here’s a list of some of our favorite vendors to look out for!

Beyond Sushi, Brew Dr. Kombucha, Doshi Vegan Bags and Accessories, HelloFresh, Hippeas, KeVita, Marty's V Burger, OM Botanical Organic Skin Care, Pranic Healing New York City, VSPOT … with many more.

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Karmay Of Gloetry Assembly On Holding Sacred Space For Women Of Color

We have to show the ugly, messy, vulnerable parts of ourselves in order to get to that space of like… Wow, I REALLY see you, I REALLY hear you, and allow that raw nakedness and exposing of self to take us to the next level of awakening.
— Karmay, gloetry assembly

Meet Karmay, the woman behind healing circles for women of color: As I walked into Heal Haus, there was Karmay, greeting me with an inviting smile and warm hug. I instantly felt the spirit of a young woman who was filled with compassion, love, confidence, and poise. Karmay is the founder of Gloetry Assembly, where she provides safe, non-judgmental spaces for women and girls to experience deeper connections with themselves and create sisterhood through women circles. Talking about boys, work, clothes, your most recent vacation or turn up is cool, but having conversations that are “substantial and soul filling” was something that Karmay says was missing. With a force of courage, Karmay decided to invite a group of friends, who had never really met each other, to come together under one roof and simply share. Little did she know, she would be starting a movement that wouldn't only affect her inner circle but would impact many other lives. Black + Well exist because of individuals like Karmay, here is her story.

What made you start Gloetry?

It wasn’t for the sake of like “Oh I need to create a space for women” ...it was more-so like trying to fill a void that was missing in my life. It was at a point in my life where I really needed community, and I really needed connection and space for self-discovery and retrospection. I didn’t feel like there was anywhere I could go where I could get that. In my mid-20s, hanging out in the bar scene and conventional spaces that young people went weren’t really speaking to me at that point in my life. I wanted a space where people were genuinely interested in meaningful conversations deeper than the surface level.  

What triggered that need for something much deeper and meaningful?

After working at Yelp for 4 ½ years as a sales manager, I felt a deep desire for self-discovery and reflection. After you get settled in a career you're more than likely to get stuck in that profession. And I was like… I’m not sure if I want to do this forever. So when I left I was like well what else am I gonna’ do? where else am I going to contribute? where do I belong? When I left I was like okay... I belong to nothing, I belong to no one, I belong to nowhere. I was going through a bit of an identity crisis, although a very privileged one (she . smiles and chuckles). I traveled a lot and was able to find myself. Then I had a moment where I specifically asked God “What is my purpose?”. He then revealed Gloetry to me in three separate situations, amongst three different friends and it was like BOOM! I need to bring my friends together and just see what happens.

What makes Gloetry stand out from other women circles?

I intentionally wanted people to have space where we don't simply share relationship stories, stories about your worst tinder date, but to actually dive deep and walk away with at least one epiphany. We have to show the ugly, messy, vulnerable parts of ourselves in order to get to that space of like… Wow, I REALLY see you, I REALLY hear you, and allow that raw nakedness and exposing of self to take us to the next level of awakening. The whole meaning behind Gloetry is to raise collective awareness and collective consciousness.

Were you someone who naturally always spoke up and stepped into your truth?

No, not at all. I was actually someone who didn’t speak up. I was very much afraid of using my voice. I had learned at a young age to not do that. I came from two amazing parents who struggled with emotionally sharing, so my emotions and feelings were very stunted from being shared. I grew up being a child who just listened, obeyed and did what I was told. I saw how that dynamic showed up in my career and how I related to authority. However, my mom was someone who spoke up for herself and advocated for herself whenever it was time, so it’s a very interesting contradiction in that way. I did realize I struggled with speaking my truth in the face of authority, whether that was jobs, bosses, boyfriends, anyone who had some sort of “power” over me, that was my narrative. Gloetry has put me on a path of totally pushing out everything of who I was.

We have a different layer of healing than white women. We cannot do our healing unless we take into account the generational aspect of it and ancestral part of it.
— karmay, gloetry assembly

When was a time you had to speak up and advocate for yourself?

One day my job gave a white guy a promotion over me, who wasn’t performing as well as me. I went to my boss and was like… “Hey why did this person get a promotion when their numbers aren't as good as mine?” It's a pretty obvious thing in sales because you can actually see the numbers. She responded with “Oh I didn’t think you were ready”. Long story short, she ended up having to promote me because I approached her about it to her face.

Yes, girl!... So I know you host a circle for women from all backgrounds, but most recently created one specifically for women of color called Soul Sister Circle. How has that been?

Wow. With the Soul Sister Circle, the vibe and energy is just different. The circle keeps getting bigger, and I’m realizing that soon we’ll need a bigger space to accommodate our capacity. We’re getting the most inquiries with the Soul Sister Circles because if you look at all the women circles its recently become a very “white thing”. It’s typically a lot of white women. In London, California, Australia, Canada, literally all over, all white women. I haven't connected with another black sister who does the same work.

What made you decide to create this additional circle for W.O.C?

Spirit came to me when I started Soul Sister Circle. They came to me and said Karmay, you have to create a space for women of color because it’s time for us to connect with the unconditional love which we came from and which we’ve forgotten. We have a different layer of healing than white women. We cannot do our healing unless we take into account the generational aspect of it and ancestral part of it. In order for us to move forward as a people, we have to acknowledge what happened to those people in the past because we are the extensions and expression of those people who came before us. We truly are. All their pain, good doings, wrongdoings, is literally flowing through our veins. If we come from a place of love we’ll experience life joyfully, but if we come from a place of lack and unworthiness and inadequacy, inferiority and a general sense of aloneness then we’re gonna go through feeling as though life isn’t here for us, and a mistrust. Unfortunately our past is tied into the separation of our families, everything was stripped from us and slavery wasn't that long ago! I mean it ended in 1865, that's only a couple of hundred years ago, so our grandparents are still living embodiments of that time period. So there's a lot of expressing that they weren't able to do that we are now doing for them.

I hear you previously mentioned God. Did you grow up in a religious or spiritual family?

No, not at all. However, I did grow up with a grandmother who would always make us say our prayers every night, you know the ‘Our Father prayer’. God was always talked about. I remember being nine, and I renounced God, and I was like God does not exist! God is not there for me! Had one of those moments that I’m sure many others have at that age. I ended up having a dream that night, and I’ll never ever forget it. Ever since that dream I never doubted again. I’ve said my prayers every day for as long as I can possibly remember after that. I truly believe that is what keeps my family alive and well, that's why my grandmother is 100 years old. I realized the institution of the church isn't necessarily for me, but God and spirituality will always be for me.

What was the dream about?

I remember I was in this glass house as a child. But it wasn't me as the child, it was someone else. And it was a dark figure that came into the house. A very dark but benevolent ghost, and he was like... “I heard what you said, and I’m going to show you something”. He took me around to different scenarios of how we're supposed to be as humans, how we're supposed to treat each other, and why we’re here. The ghost went to tuck the child back in bed and the child asks “Are you leaving?”. The ghost said, “You may not see me but I’m always going to be here, I’m always going to be with you”

Wow, that's a word. A lot of people are into saying “The Universe” and using crystals and other forms of spirituality. What’s your take on that?

Well, my parents did meditate, and my mom had her crystals. My grandparents were very conservative church folk. As a child, we absorb so much, so I just kind of blend it all and find that balance between both practices.

The world is in such an interesting place. We have this unusual paradigm with like so much connection with Instagram and Facebook. I can easily speak to someone miles away, in a whole other country, but like how often am I talking to that person? Commenting on a post and liking photos doesn’t fill that void. It’s this interesting paradox of so much connection resulting in absolutely no connection.
— karmay, gloetry assembly

What can we expect next for Gloetry?

Well, I’m honestly just figuring it out as I go. There is no blueprint. I really want Gloetry to have a household name in NYC before anything else, by continuing our circles at Minka and Heal Haus. I also want to expand our reach to more school programs for girls. We also work with young girls 7-13 weeks, depending on what the school needs and we do 2hr workshops with girls ages 10-15 to learn more about their sense of self, who they are, and helping them define their values and worth on their own terms. I started that group because a lot of what we talk about in these women's circles always stems back to childhood. And I’m like, what if we could actually start getting girls to talk about this stuff at a young age, what if they already begin the introspection process at age 10 or 11. Where would humanity be then?

That's so amazing and necessary work for our young girls and communities. I really love that. When did you begin this?

I piloted the program last year with 5 girls and it was just amazing how these girls opened up. I had a mixed girl in the session and she would always wear her hair back, she was very insecure about her curls. You know, at that age when you don't really know how to manage your hair, and it's just all frizz? She hated it. And through the workshop which is all about self-love and self-acceptance, she began to wear her hair out towards the end of the program. That was so amazing! Now she's wearing braids, doing all this stuff and truly trying to explore herself. And the girls that I have now, they never want this program to end. I mean seriously, they always ask if I’ll be back next semester and next year. So I really want Gloetry to be in more schools!

What about your Corporate Culture Workshops?

Ok, so corporate wellness became a thing because yoga and meditation became a new hot thing.  A lot of corporate spaces now offer yoga as a perk with your corporate job. That's great, but yoga and meditation are still very individual. When I meditate that's my own experience, I'm connecting deeper with myself and I’m finding peace, balance, harmony, and spirit within myself. What's being said now is that the antidote to depression and anxiety is a connection, connection to other people. Loneliness is actually more of a killer than cigarettes. So it's like if you're doing yoga and meditation that’s great, but you still need to talk about that experience with someone, you still need to be able to express yourself and be vulnerable and release whatever is inside of you. So I would really love to see corporate companies start bringing in sharing circles like Gloetry, and let's start changing the culture, and stop making our lives such isolated incidents, because in reality we are so interconnected, we are so much more than ourselves. I believe the world is craving that inter-connectivity. The world is in such an interesting place. We have this unusual paradigm with like so much connection with Instagram and Facebook. I can easily speak to someone miles away, in a whole other country, but like how often am I really talking to that person? Commenting on a post and liking photos doesn't fill that void. It's this interesting paradox of so much connection resulting in absolutely no connection. The core of us as humans is actually being face to face, in a physical space, and sharing.


How do you stay true to your core values with Gloetry?

By just sticking to the ethos of Gloetry that we're not just going to give you this cute thing, and hand it to you in a bow. Wellness is not a cute thing. Wellness is messy, wellness is raw, healing is messy, healing is raw, healing is not a perfect smile, healing is not pretending everything is ok, healing is not trying to keep it all together. Healing is really showing what you're really going through. I think too often wellness is shown as this cute, bow-tied present handed to you because of it being marketable and profitable that way. That's not what Gloetry represents. What Gloetry means to me is finding the light within yourself so that you can spread your light to others. It’s interesting because it has the root word ‘glow’, and it ends with ‘tree’. I really believe that's what we are. We are growing and rooted in the earth. We are all trees, we are all connected to each other by our roots. So Gloetry is a very spiritual and symbolic word in itself. We call everyone who comes to our sessions ‘Glo-trotters’. It's essentially about being a support system for all women’s mental health.



Stay connected with Gloetry Assembly on Instagram and up to date with upcoming circles in NYC via Facebook


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Azalia L. - Wellness Advocate and Coach, Founder of Black + Well

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The Invisible Vegan: A Documentary For The Collective

Meet Jasmine C. Leyva, an actress, filmmaker, and producer of The Invisible Vegan, a 90-minute independent documentary that explores the problem of unhealthy dietary patterns in the African-American community, foregrounding the health and wellness possibilities enabled by plant-based vegan diets and lifestyle choices. Jasmine identifies as a black American, hailing out of Southeast DC, “pre-gentrification” (she says, pointing that out makes a difference). The film interweaves her narrative with the professional and personal experiences of a prominent group of vegan activists. It also integrates interviews with popular culture luminaries including Cedric the Entertainer (actor and comedian), John Salley (former NBA player and wellness advocate), and Clayton Gavin (aka Stic of the hip-hop duo Dead Prez). Jasmine shares with Black + Well her perspective on veganism, and what she hopes viewers walk away with. Rent or Purchase The Invisible Vegan HERE. Full trailer available below.


What made you go vegan and decide to create this documentary?

I was exposed to veganism when I was twenty, which is why, initially, I only wanted to try it out for cosmetic reasons. I saw Chef Babette, the middle-aged owner of Stuff I Eat, and I said to myself “I want her body when I get older”. She shared her vegan habits with me and I put them into play. But my reason for going vegan evolved when I noticed health changes around my weight, acne, digestion, hygiene, etc. I read vegan books and I watched several documentaries on a vegan diet like Cowspiracy, Vegucated, Food Inc, Forks Over Knives, and others. As I learned, I tried to put my black friends on to the health game, but they dismissed me with “you’re on that white people shit.” or “you on that LA shit.” and it hit me… A lot of people in my community don’t feel connected to health and compassionate living because the subjects have not been equally marketed to us. When I reflected on the documentaries I watched, all of the messengers were white males who might not relate to inner city people of color that grew up the way I did. So I chose to create something tailor-made for people like me.

Is being vegan a total lifestyle for you? Do you avoid any and everything that is resourced from animals?

Recently, I’ve encountered debates on what it means to be vegan. I’ve heard it referred to as a diet, philosophy, religion and a lifestyle. What intrigues me is how offended some people get when you don’t use their semantics, so for safety, I’ll throw labels out of the window. I am on a journey of wellness and compassion. For the past few years, I have been following a vegan diet, and my latest purchases have been cruelty-free. However, while I don’t buy products derived from animals, I didn’t exactly throw away my wardrobe and shoe collection that was not ethically made. This shift of consciousness is a process and while there are rock stars that make the change overnight, I am not one of them. To avoid relapse, I took my time and upgraded like an iPhone. Once I secured one habit, I moved on to the next and this method makes it so I don’t really feel the change.


What's the number one misconception about veganism?

The number one misconception I encounter in regards to veganism is that we are depriving ourselves. For the first time in my life, I am hyper-concerned with how many nutrients I am getting. Before, I would eat fast food and several meals that contained no nutritional value. That is when I was depriving myself. I was deprived of vitamins, minerals, vegetables, fruits, healthy carbs, and awareness. Eating plant-based food isn’t deprivation; it is paying attention.


Do you think veganism is a form of revolution for the black community?

I don’t think veganism it’s always a form of revolution; that gives vegans too much unearned high ground. Some people go vegan to appease other people’s standards of beauty or want to follow celebrity trends. That’s fine, but it’s not a form of intentional revolution. Veganism becomes a form of revolution when intelligence, consciousness, change, and compassion are at the core of one’s choices.

When black people/ POC consider going vegan, ethical reasoning such as animal cruelty, the environment etc. are usually not a thought. The conversation is typically around consuming healthier food to prevent disease. Why do you think that is?

My film covers animal rights but it’s more focused on health. I received mild backlash for that choice and I told those people, I’m a black woman and I can’t operate the way others operate. If I had come out with a film about the conditions of farm animals while unarmed black men and women are being customarily executed, many members of my community wouldn’t have given me or my film the time of day. Not because I come from a race incapable of compassion, but more so because people are dealing with more immediate issues. When people are stressed out because they hate their own conditions, it’s hard to convince them, in this stressed state, to worry about another group they perceive to be unimportant due to cultural conditioning. The same goes for the environment. If people have to constantly worry about keeping food on the table, habitually in stress mode, these people aren’t in a position to put rational thought into the state of the environment in fifty years, they are in “fight or flight” mode. However, people in my community are repeatedly battling with losing friends and family to degenerative disease. So it makes sense, to me, that someone might be more concerned with their grandma’s diabetes or their mother’s cancer than problems they can’t see.


What advice/tips do you have for someone one interested in conforming to a plant-based diet?

Look at being unhealthy as a drug habit. Bad foods are just as, if not more, addictive than drugs. If a person tries to stop smoking crack, it’s going to be hard if it’s always in the house, if they always see commercials for it, if all of their friends are crackheads, and they have no support system pulling them in the other direction. So my advice: get a support system. Talk to your friends and find out who wants to get healthy with you and more times than not, these people exist in your circle.

What do you hope people who watch this documentary walk away with?

When my brother watched my film he said: “I’m not gonna lie, I’m not going to go vegan tomorrow, but you definitely gave me a lot of things to think about that I hadn’t considered.” At the very least, that is what I want. I want non-vegans to walk away with, at least, a new spark of consciousness in regards to their food choices. I want vegans to walk away with compassion for non-vegans and reflect on their marketing. They need to understand how some outreach efforts, while well-intentioned, can exclude, devalue and repel non-vegan people of color.

What does being black and well mean or look like to you?

It’s feeling sexy. And not because of photoshopped Instagram photos, but because you radiate energy and compassion. It’s loving yourself so much that you want the best for yourself down to the detail. It’s understanding that there are a plethora of forces trying to further disenfranchise our race, and we don’t want to be a permanent underclass. We need to be healthy enough and love our race enough to fight those battles. Being “black and well” is self-love and collective preservation. (Insert finger-snaps)

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Anasa Troutman on Joy, Radical Love, + Forgiveness

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Writer, producer, and entrepreneur, Anasa Troutman has dedicated her work to the importance of culture and the power of love. As CEO of her company, Culture Shift Creative, Anasa works to build and execute strategies for artists and organizations that are aligned with her vision of a loving world and her belief in creativity as a pathway to personal, community and global transformation.

In her recent TED TALK, Troutman discusses going from justice to joy. She goes on to say “What if we teach everybody that all of us of deserve joy, wellness, the benefit of the doubt even… what would that be like? A culture of joy offers sustained well-being for everyone”.

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Black Women In Wellness: 21 Influencers + Advocates You Should Know + Follow

As a way to celebrate International Women’s Day we put together a list of black women authentically and unapologetically advocating for wellness within their communities.

These women represent what is means to be Black + Well


Chelsea.

@TheCoffeyBreak: Every week the Black + Well community is blessed with affirmations by the one and only ‘Affirmation Queen’ Chelsea Coffey. Admitting to not “having it all” Chelsea uses affirmations and her spiritual awareness as a way of manifesting a purposeful and fulfilling life. TheCoffeyBreak.com

DeJanae.

@dejanetanye: Wellness writer, certified cannabis educator and founder of @greengodessglow. DeJanae uses her platform to encourage mindful cannabis + self-care practices. GreenGoddesGlow.com

Chelsea.

@thatschelsea: Chelsea began her platform in an effort to help teach others how they can live a healthier lifestyle, as well as become more knowledgeable, and health-conscious consumers. Her content ranges from quick health tips to eco and green beauty reviews, to plant-based recipes. ThatsChelsea.com.

Yasmine.

@meanttobeyasmine: NJ based writer, body positivity advocate, and content creator. With a simple mission to “honor myself enough to become who I’m meant to be”, Yasmine encourages others to be fearless and do the same with @transparentblackgirl; a community organization founded to encourage, highlight, and nurture unapologetic women of color. Meanttobeyasmine.com

Shanna.

@shannatyler_:Life + Biz Coach and Podcaster. After being diagnosed with major depressive disorder and hospitalized in an inpatient facility, Shanna decided to move toward the light, and share her story to empower others to do the same with her podcast Self Soul Sport. Catch her sharing all things wellness over at ShannaTyler.com


Leah.

@GreenGirlLeah: A sustainability + wellness writer and advocate, whose overall goal is to help people live with both self-care and the environment in mind. Leah is passionate about environmental justice and equal access to nature, which she personally calls 'Green Inclusivity'. GreenGirlLeah.com

Kharissa.

@Kforteco: Writer, health coach, and light force. Kharissa continues to advocate for wellness in multiple ways, spiritually being one. With her book Pardon My ApathyKharissa aims to help women create authentic lives by reaching the root of their core desires and seeking fulfillment over validation.

Aala.

@aalaoffical: After curing herself of an autoimmune disease, Aala has been encouraging others to take their health into their own hands with her cookbook cleanse. You can catch her spreading health and wellness at aalacleanse.com


Somi.

@somiigbene: Advocating for health and wellness through a plant-based diet, Somi shares drool-worthy recipes over at VeganBySomi.com

Danielle.

@zelue: A Brooklynite, Nurse Practitioner, and creative. Danielle dedicated her blog to plant care/styling, self-care, vegan and sustainable living, home decor, and the pursuit of cultivating a joy-filled life. Her goal is to be her most authentic self and inspire others to do the same. Zelue.me


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Larriell.

@herthrivinglife: Larriell believes that health is a priority and should be considered mentally, physically and spiritually. Her Thriving Life exists to inspire others to live a life of wellness to produce growth, peace, and happiness. HerThrivingLife.com


Melissa.

@metricdisco: Melissa shares her personal wellness journey unapologetically. Along the way she’s learned to give herself “permission to enter spaces of predominately thin, white people and tell myself “yes, this is for me” even when I felt like the people around me were implicitly telling me no”. Follow along as she cultivates an active practice of self-care and joy at MetricDisco.com

Jasmin.

@mashandspread: Registered Dietician by day. Blogger by night. Jasmin shares creative ways to indulge in healthier food choices at MashAndSpread.com

Amanda.

@elevatedbygrace: Vegan Health Influencer. Amanda’s goal is to lead a life of health consciousness and inspire other to do the same. Check out her YouTube Channel where she shares recipes and mini docs. ElevatedByGrace

Les.

@balancedles: Les is the fitness-loving founder of Balanced Black Girl, a podcast and supportive wellness community for women of color. She creates space for women to have candid conversations about wellness, self-care, and self-love, with a dose of humor. BalancedBlackGirl.com

Nzingah.

@yesbabyilikeitraw: With a holistic approach to wellness, Nzingah shares food, fitness, mental health, and self-care tips along with natural remedies to empower others to live more wholesomely. YesBabyILikeItRaw.com

Brielle.

@wellwithbrielle: Black + Well contributor Brielle shares her own personal wellness journey and tips around a lifestyle of wellness on her blog. WellWithBrielle.com

Maiah.

@maiahthemermaid: Wellness coach and fitness instructor, Maiah advocates for others to get fit and offers wellness programs over at MaiahTheMermaid.com

Denise.

@brooklynbabe NYC Mama, Doula, Wellness & Self Care Advocate, and Content Creator. Denise loves building community, supporting moms, women, and humans while remaining in a constant state of growth and connection with the universe. ABrooklynBabe.com


Valerie.

@floursihheights: Dietician Valerie advocates for women’s nutrition & wellness and helping others plant their health on higher ground. FlourishHeight.com

Tiffany.

@TiffanyIma: Teaches creative women how to use exercise and self-care to manage depression + improve their overall wellness. She believes we all can build our own happiness through a simple and holistic approach to wellness. TiffanyIma.com


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